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Podcast Episode #213

Birth story with Holly [IVF, navigating cancer diagnosis, postpartum rage, vaginal birth, LGBTIQA]

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In this podcast episode, I chatted with Holly, a first time mum, about her journey with IVF with her husband who underwent a gender transition when he was younger. As a result, her husband’s ability to biologically father a child was not an option. However, the couple’s determination led them to a solution: choosing a family member as a sperm donor to conceive via IVF. This decision marked the beginning of Holly’s multifaceted pregnancy journey, occurring with both anticipation and complexity.

Facing Her Husband’s Cancer Diagnosis During Pregnancy

Despite a relatively smooth pregnancy, Holly faced significant hurdles when her husband was diagnosed with cancer during her second trimester. This period brought profound emotional and physical challenges, overshadowing the typical joys of pregnancy with concerns about health and the future. Holly’s resilience during these trying times was a testament to her strength and the support she and her husband provided each other.

Labour and Birth

The birth of their son was a pivotal chapter in Holly’s birth story. The labour was intense and prolonged, requiring an epidural and vacuum assistance, as well as a second-degree perineal tear. Despite these challenges, the arrival of their son was a moment filled with ‘overwhelming joy’.

Navigating the Postpartum Period

Postpartum was another phase of significant adjustment for Holly. She grappled with breastfeeding difficulties, her husband’s ongoing cancer treatment, and her own battles with emotional health, including postpartum rage and intrusive thoughts. Through these struggles, Holly learned the importance of seeking professional support and counselling. She stresses the value of lactation consultants for breastfeeding issues and the crucial role of mental health support in navigating the complexities of postpartum life.

Advocating for Education and Support

Throughout her story, Holly advocates passionately for education and preparation for childbirth. She emphasises the need for prospective parents to educate themselves on their birthing options and the associated risks to make informed decisions.

Holly’s birth story is not just a narrative of becoming a mother but an inspiration for others facing unusual or difficult paths to parenthood. Her journey underscores the power of resilience, the importance of informed decision-making, and the invaluable support systems that help parents navigate the intricate experiences of pregnancy, birth, and beyond. Holly’s story is a reminder of the beauty and challenges of motherhood, resonating with anyone who hears it.

** This podcast has general information only. Always seek the guidance of your doctor or other qualified health professional with any questions or concerns you may have regarding your health or medical condition. 

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